~ Aletheia Charis Gordon: born 3/9/17 at 9:34 am, 7 pounds, 4 ounces, 20 inches~
If you read our post almost 19 months ago, you know that Chelsey and I really love the naming process in regards to our kids. Round two was no different from the first. We love the opportunity to have one of our first acts of leadership of our children be giving them a name that we pray they will aspire to live up to.
We don’t do so to apply pressure to them from the get-go. Yet we know that can be a risk involved. But if we understand parenting properly, we believe our job is to lead them to Jesus before we lead them anywhere else. The gospel of Jesus teaches us that we all fall short of the glory of God in our own efforts. But reconciliation comes from faith in Christ’s work on the cross, dying for our sins and inadequacies, and his resurrection from the dead to eternal life. We want our kids to know that the only way they can live up to their names is to put their faith in Jesus and take on his righteousness.
One of the most important aspects of the gospel is the understanding that we do not measure up before God. But Jesus did, and his righteousness is applied to those who believe in him and declare him as Lord. Only then can we fulfill the purposes we were created for.
We named our second daughter Aletheia Charis.
Like our firstborn, both names have their roots in Greek. Aletheia is the Greek word for truth. In a culture that questions the reality of truth or at least questions whether we can know truth, we want her to know both that truth exists and that she can know it. We know this because God the Father sent his Son, Jesus, as the truth. The Son was at creation with the Father, and all things were created through him. He is the truth. He is the one we depend upon. Truth never depends upon us, our feelings, emotions, or experiences. Truth is found in the God of creation and salvation. More often than not, we will find ourselves suffering from the unknown. But we know the God of truth, the one who is light in the darkness. We are going to tell Aletheia she will be tempted to look to herself or other sources for truth. But every time she utters her own name, she will have the reminder that there is truth, and it has one source.
John reminds his readers in his gospel and his letters that he is an eyewitness and ambassador of the God of truth as revealed in and through Jesus. There is no hope, no light, no way, and no salvation outside of him. The beautiful truth is this. Even though we are sinners and the whole world is affected by sin and evil, the Truth came down to us, taking on flesh. He lived in our skin. He died in our place. Then he rose to our amazement, and he is coming again in our future. That is truth, and it is good news!
Charis is the Greek word for grace. We have his truth because of his grace. The word is closely related to the word for “gift.” If you understand grace, you understand why! And grace goes further than just a gift. Grace implies that there is not one thing we could ever do to deserve this gift. Our rebellion against God has us deserving his wrath. But his grace comes to us to open the door to salvation in his gospel of truth.
“And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.” – John 1:14 (ESV)
God doesn’t owe us the truth of the gospel. But by his grace he has given us the truth. We want her name to remind her to walk in the steady combination of truth and grace, though not 50% of both. Rather we pray she aims at that perfect intertwined nature of truth and grace that points others to her creator. We pray she is full of gracious truth and truthful grace. To withhold truth in the name of grace is not godly grace. To speak truth without grace is to miss the God of that truth. We are praying she is a beacon of truth and grace to those around her. For that to happen, she needs to encounter Jesus through the gospel of truth and grace that brings salvation.
Some may ask, “Why Greek?” Aside from the fact that we think the names are beautiful on the tongue, we go back to the New Testament language as a reminder of God’s steadfast love and eternal promises that reach beyond our generations in either direction. Jesus is known as the Ancient of Days, the Alpha and Omega. The original language reminds us of that eternal truth.
Aletheia Charis will have her dad’s initials. It will be a constant reminder that it is my job as her father to love and lead our family with grace and truth. That’s a tall task that I can only complete through the power of God in me. I will make it my aim to show my family the truth and grace of God. I pray that I can faithfully say to my family as Paul said to the church at Corinth, “Imitate me as I imitate Christ” (1 Cor. 11:1). Though the “G” in ACG may one day be dropped for a new last name, it is our prayer that she will marry a man full of Christ, full of grace and truth.
Prayer for Aletheia Charis:
Our God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, we ask you to reveal yourself to our little girl. Thank you for entrusting her to us. Please give us the wisdom and guidance to bring her up in your ways. Use your Holy Spirit to draw her near to you at an early age. Protect her from the evil one. Please save her. Please form her into the image of your Son who has been revealed to us full of grace and truth. Give her a passion to forsake all and follow him with her whole heart. Use us to point her to you. We are humbled that you chose to entrust her to us, though we know she is yours. Use her how you see fit for your glory and for your name’s sake.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen